caravanserai

V.F. I don’t know what you mean by this!!!!!!

I wasn’t asking you about victim.
I was asking Alok John.
I don’t see you as perceiving yourself as a victim.
You act as if you believe you have agency, as if you have agency.

I also answered separately in the thread near the bottom

Depends who you are engaging with.

You must be FUCKING joking VF; but not like I once did. On a scale of one to a hundred I’m down to about 5.

I have a really long fuse VF, but once I a blue moon really flip out, not for two years now, but I dont beat myself up about it. Anger plays a part in boundary setting at best. There is just anger.